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Tuesday, May 22, 2012

Sex Education 101: Sex creates Babies.

Let's talk about sex baby! Lol yes it's a song but we literally are going to talk about sex. And babies. Because apparently some people in this world have forgotten that these two go together!  This has stemmed after reading this article:
 http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/desmond-hatchett-sets-record-30-children-11-women-article-1.1081531

I was amazed not shocked when I saw the recent headlines about the brother named Desmond Hatchett who had --count em!--30 KIDS!!! with....11 DIFFERENT BABY MOMMAS!!!! SMH. Look. Society has failed. Society has failed in raising smart, productive, responsible human beings. Why do I blame society? Because it is society that rejected religous moral standards to conduct behavior in our lives. It is society that said we don't need to be married to have sex. We don't need to have protection to have sex. We don't need to have a job, stable career, a functionally head on our shoulders that is capable of making intelligent decisions, capable of raising children...to have sex. Well society the verdict has arrived. This is evidence of your foolishness.

One thing that really annoys me is the fact that with the advancement of technology, people have released more and more of their personal responsibility mandate, instead, relying heavily on technology to cover their mistakes. This is evident in many areas that I will not go into at this time...but my point is, people have started to think that they are no longer expected to be responsible, make mature KNOWLEDGABLE decisions on account of existing technology. This is why you get people blaming a broken condom for getting pregnant. Uh duh. If a rocket can fail to launch obviously other technology is going to fail at some point or another. Also, the invention of technological abortion and medical interventions on STDS and HIV has pepertuated irresponsiblity. Now people do what they do because they figure whatever risk is associated with their actions can be taken care of later.

But there comes a time when stupid is no longer stupid but actual mental deficiency. How is it that after one baby that you didn't want you can still continue to have unprotected sex? How is it that after 2 babies (that you don't want!) you can still think about sex favorably? How is it that after 21 you are still going? To reach 30?????? Someone does not have all their marbles.

Don't even get me started on the women who would lay down with a brother of this caliber. What in their right mind told them that a man who got a gazillion other women pregnant and can't take care of all those children is ok to sleep with?? What told them that a man who has a minimum wage job and can't take care  of himself is ok  to risk having a child with???? Women do not give out your goodies to just anything!!!

"Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and then turn and tear you to pieces." Words of wisdom from the Book of Life Matthew 7:6.

I feel as though someone forgot to tell these people that sex is connected to babies. When you have sex you can get pregnant!!!! So before you do, THINK! Do you want a baby? Are you READY, PREPARED, and ABLE to provide for that baby by yourself?? I think it should be a crime to have a baby you can't take care of. Now I am NOT talking about unfortunate circumstances happening after your pregnancy, but prehand knowledge of the inability to care economically, physically and emotionally for a child. This man asking for a break from child support is ridiculous. The women asking for child support from HIM is ridiculous.

I wish for a day when people would not depend on other things/people to cover their inadequacies but do what they have to inorder to prevent such inadequacies. This is a blanket statement. I am not against welfare but I am against created welfare states. Sometimes, yes- circumstances just don't work in your favor and lo and behold poverty afflicts.  Ok that's fine. But sometimes (and a lot of times this is!) people create their own state of poverty. STOP IT. Just stop.

1 comment:

  1. Very nice article. Balanced, intelligent and thought provoking. :)

    Rico

    www.ricosopinionation.blogspot.com

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